The Adoption Process for Birth Mothers: A Step-by-Step Guide
By A Act of Love Adoptions
If you're pregnant and considering adoption, the process can feel overwhelming before you understand it. In reality, it's just five steps, and we walk with you through every one.
1. Start a Conversation
Call, text, or email any time. Our counselors are available 24/7. Every conversation is confidential, without obligation, and at no cost. You're not committing to anything by reaching out, you're just asking questions.
2. Create Your Adoption Plan
Together, you and your counselor shape a plan. What kind of adoption (open, semi-open, or closed)? What kind of family? Your preferences about the hospital experience. Who will be there with you. How you want to stay in touch after placement, if at all.
Your adoption plan is yours. There's no template and no pressure, and you can change your plan at any time before consent is signed.
3. Choose an Adoptive Family
Browse profiles of home-study-approved families who match the values and life you want for your child. You can meet families, talk with them by phone, or take your time. Your counselor mediates the conversation.
4. Prepare for Placement
As you approach delivery, we help you build your hospital plan, coordinate any medical care, and assign your own independent legal counsel, paid for by the agency, at no cost to you. If you're traveling to Utah from another state, we coordinate through the ICPC.
For out-of-state birth mothers, home-state Medicaid is verified before travel, and return transportation is guaranteed regardless of your decision. You are in charge the entire time.
5. Post-Placement Support
After placement, support doesn't stop. We provide ongoing counseling, birth mother support groups, and the openness plan you chose. Placement is a beginning, not an end.
Your Rights Throughout
- ●The right to change your mind before consent is signed
- ●The right to independent legal counsel at no cost
- ●The right to privacy and confidentiality
- ●The right to choose openness level
- ●The right, for out-of-state birth mothers, to return-transport of the same mode and quality, regardless of your decision
Questions About Your Situation?
Our counselors are available 24/7, free, confidential, and no obligation.
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