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For Hopeful Adoptive Families

How to Adopt a Baby

A Complete Guide for Hopeful Adoptive Families
in 7 Steps

Adopting a baby through a licensed adoption agency is a life-changing journey that begins with an application, a home study, and a match with an expectant mother. We're a licensed non-profit adoption agency in Utah with 30+ years of experience, guiding adoptive families and the birth moms who choose them.

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Who Can Adopt a Baby?

Most adults who meet their state's home study requirements can adopt a baby through a licensed agency. We welcome married couples, single adults, and LGBTQ+ families.

Typical eligibility includes age 21 or older, financial stability, clear background checks, and a state-licensed home study. Specific requirements vary by state, we walk you through every step.

The 7-Step Process

From Application to Placement

Typical timeline: 12 to 24 months from first conversation to placement.

  1. Start with a Conversation

    01Start with a Conversation

    A free intake call to ask questions, share your story, and learn if we're a fit. No commitment.

  2. Apply to the Agency

    02Apply to the Agency

    Complete our adoptive family application packet, including background information and references.

  3. Complete Your Home Study

    03Complete Your Home Study

    A state-licensed home study provider in your state reviews your home, finances, and family life. Typically 3 to 6 months.

  4. Create Your Adoption Profile

    04Create Your Adoption Profile

    Write and photograph a profile book and optional video that introduces you to expectant mothers.

  5. Wait to Match with a Birth Mother

    05Wait to Match with a Birth Mother

    Our outreach program connects you with expectant mothers who have chosen your profile. Typical wait: 9 to 18 months.

  6. Placement and Consent

    06Placement and Consent

    Your hospital plan, consent, and the first days after birth will be handled with care, respect, and steady support. In Utah, consent cannot be signed until at least 24 hours after birth and may be revoked within 72 hours after signing unless that revocation period is waived in writing.

  7. Post-Placement and Finalization

    07Post-Placement and Finalization

    Post-placement visits (typically 3 to 6 months), followed by court finalization. In Utah, finalization typically occurs within 6 months.

How long does the adoption process take

Timeline

How Long Does It Take?

Most domestic infant adoptions through A Act of Love take 12 to 24 months from application to placement. Home study typically takes 3 to 6 months. Average wait time after your profile is active: 9 to 18 months.

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What does it cost to adopt

Cost

What Does It Cost?

Adoption fees for adoptive families vary based on your situation, the services you need, and the state law that applies. The total typically covers agency fees, home study, legal counsel, and approved birth mother support as allowed by state law. Contact us for a personalized estimate.

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The home study explained

The Home Study Explained

An adoption home study is the state-licensed evaluation that confirms an adoptive family is ready and able to provide a safe, loving home for a child. It typically includes background checks, a home visit, interviews, and a review of your finances, references, and family life.

Timeline: typically 3 to 6 months. Cost: varies by state and provider, contact us for more.

Why A Act of Love

Why Adopt Through A Act of Love?

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30+ Years

Guiding adoptive families since 1993.

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Licensed non-profit adoption agency in Utah.

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Counseling, legal, medical, matching, and post-placement support.

Ready to Start Your Adoption Journey?

Apply to adopt, browse waiting situations, or just talk with a counselor about where to begin.

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What Adoptive Families Say

Stories from families who have built their home through A Act of Love.

Act of Love is more than just an adoption agency, it's an incredible family that we felt immediately welcomed to and supported by.

Act of Love is more than just an adoption agency, it's an incredible family that we felt immediately welcomed to and supported by as we embarked on our adoption journey. We also witnessed the same level of incredible care and support with our baby's magical birth parents, which was very important to us. Thank you!

Chloe and Marie
Adoptive Family

Common Questions

Adoptive Family FAQ

What are the requirements to adopt a baby?+

To adopt through a licensed agency, you must meet your state's home study requirements, typically age 21+, financially stable, free of certain criminal history, and able to pass background checks.

Can single parents or LGBTQ+ families adopt?+

Yes. Single adults and LGBTQ+ families are fully welcomed at A Act of Love and can adopt a baby on the same terms as any other qualified applicants.

What types of adoption are available?+

Most domestic infant adoptions today are open or semi-open, meaning some level of contact with the birth family. Closed adoptions are also possible.

Do we have to live in Utah to adopt through A Act of Love?+

No. We work with adoptive families in most U.S. states. Your home study must be completed by a state-licensed provider in your home state.

How much does it cost to adopt a baby?+

Adoption fees for adoptive families vary based on your situation, the services you need, and the state law that applies. Contact us for a personalized estimate.

How do adoption tax credits work?+

The IRS offers a federal adoption tax credit per child, adjusted annually. Visit IRS Form 8839 for the current figure and consult your tax professional for advice on your situation.

Can we adopt if we already have biological children?+

Yes. Many adoptive families already have biological or previously-adopted children.

Can we choose the baby's race or gender?+

You can express preferences in your adoption plan, and matches are made accordingly, but most families are open to a range, which leads to faster matches.

How is domestic infant adoption different from foster care?+

Domestic infant adoption is a voluntary placement from a birth mother who chooses adoption during pregnancy. Foster care involves children in state custody, typically with reunification as the initial goal.

Why A Act of Love

Why Families & Birth Parents Choose Act of Love

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Founded in 1993

Founded by an adoptive mother. Many on our team are adoptive parents or adoptees themselves.

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2,500+ Adoptions

Birth moms and adoptive families in Utah and many other states have trusted us.

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One of the Top-Reviewed adoption agencies in the country from birth moms and families we have served.

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Counseling, legal, medical coordination, and post-placement support.

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Tell us about your family. A member of our team will reach out within 24 hours to schedule a free, no-obligation conversation.

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