A Act of Love Adoptions

Common Questions

Frequently Asked Questions About Adoption

Answers to the questions birth mothers, adoptive families, and curious visitors ask us most.

Decisions and Support

Is adoption the right choice for me?+

Only you can answer that, and you don't have to decide today. Our counselors offer confidential, no-pressure conversations so you can explore your options at your own pace.

Do I have to decide right now?+

No. Every conversation with our counselors is confidential and without obligation.

Can I change my mind?+

Yes, until you sign the voluntary relinquishment. In Utah, consent is signed no earlier than 24 hours after birth and is irrevocable upon signing.

Process

How does the adoption process work for birth mothers?+

Five steps: (1) start a conversation, (2) create your adoption plan, (3) choose an adoptive family, (4) prepare for placement, (5) post-placement support.

How do I choose an adoptive family?+

You browse home-study-approved family profiles and decide who matches your values. Take your time; there's no right or wrong choice.

What happens at the hospital?+

You are in charge. Your hospital plan, who is there, who holds the baby first, how discharge works, is your plan.

Legal and Rights

Do I get my own attorney?+

Yes. You receive independent legal counsel at no cost. Your attorney represents your interests, not the agency's.

What about the birth father?+

Utah maintains a putative father registry. Your attorney walks you through notice requirements and how they apply to your situation.

Can I still have contact with my child after placement?+

Yes, if you choose open or semi-open adoption. Most adoptions today include some level of ongoing contact.

Financial

Does it cost anything to place a baby for adoption?+

No. All services, counseling, legal counsel, medical coordination, and approved living expense support, are provided at no cost to you, as allowed by state law.

What kind of support can I receive?+

Counseling, medical coordination, housing support, legal counsel, and pregnancy-related living expense support. All subject to Utah law under H.B. 51 (2026).

Do I have to live in Utah to work with you?+

No. We help birth moms in many states. Out-of-state placements are coordinated through the Interstate Compact on the Placement of Children (ICPC). Adoption laws vary by state, so a free consultation is the best way to understand what is possible where you live.

Eligibility

What are the requirements to adopt a baby?+

Most adults meeting their state's home study requirements, age 21+, financially stable, free of certain criminal history, can adopt. Married couples, single adults, and LGBTQ+ families are all welcomed.

Do we have to live in Utah?+

No. We work with adoptive families in most U.S. states. Your home study must be completed by a state-licensed provider in your home state.

Can single parents or LGBTQ+ families adopt?+

Yes, fully. Same terms as any other qualified applicants.

Process

How long does the adoption process take?+

Typically 12 to 24 months from application to placement. Home study: 3 to 6 months. Wait after profile is active: 9 to 18 months on average.

What is a home study?+

A state-licensed evaluation confirming you're ready and able to provide a safe, loving home. Background checks, home visits, interviews, and adoption education.

How does matching work?+

Birth mothers review our home-study-approved family profiles and choose the family that feels right for them.

Cost and Financial

How much does adoption cost?+

Domestic infant adoption typically ranges $30,000 to $50,000 for adoptive families. For birth mothers, services are free. Federal adoption tax credit ~$16,000 per child offsets costs.

Are there adoption grants?+

Yes. Organizations like Gift of Adoption, Show Hope, and the National Adoption Foundation offer grants to adoptive families.

Placement and After

How does placement work?+

After consent is signed (in Utah, no earlier than 24 hours after birth), the baby goes home with you. Post-placement visits follow for 3 to 6 months.

When is the adoption finalized?+

In Utah, typically within 6 months of placement. Timelines vary by state.

What's post-placement support?+

Ongoing counseling, openness facilitation with the birth family if chosen, and resources for your growing family.

About A Act of Love

Is A Act of Love licensed?+

Yes. A Act of Love Adoptions is a licensed non-profit adoption agency in the State of Utah.

How long have you been in business?+

Since 1993, over 30 years of domestic infant adoption work.

How do I verify your reviews?+

Our full review history is published on Google. We maintain an average of 4.8 stars across 129 reviews.

Are you a religious agency?+

No. A Act of Love is a non-denominational licensed non-profit that welcomes and serves families of all faiths.

How do I file a complaint?+

Complaints about Utah-licensed adoption agencies go to the Utah Office of Licensing at dlbc.utah.gov/concerns-and-incident. See our compliance page for detail.

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